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@maya.ranae

They will never pay you back because of one thing: entitlement. You can lend them money, and they'll either deny it, or drag it out for months. "Oh, I don't get paid until next week..." "Oh, I used up my last penny for the baby shower gifts... I'll let you know when I got it." - #toxicpeople #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

They will claim you're doing/thinking things that they are actually doing/thinking. It also can overlap into blame-shifting. They'll claim you're treating them a certain way, you're act a certain way, and that's what makes them angry. . Example: the ex from my past would exaggerate things about his mom and me to make it seem like she's/I'm victimizing him... when it's the other way around: he was manipulating me and her. . Parents in this situation at some point will realize they need to kick this adult-child out of their lives. 👍 . They will project their behaviors onto you. They are delusional so they don't realize how sick and disordered they truly are. . You're the instigator and blamer according to them. You're the liar. You're the one that is lazy and doesn't make enough money... Etc. In reality you may be acting normal or reacting to their abuse or talking with them about it or about your concerns with them. And they exaggerate and blow it out of proportions! (And even "Triangulate" counseling sessions.) These people claim change and claim therapy is helping their love life/family relations/etc when in reality it's just The Cycle Of Abuse and lies. - #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

DO NOT BRING A NARCISSISTIC PERSON TO THERAPY. Not even your own child... Here's why. . Triangulation is a manipulation tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead using a third person (typically therapists) to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. . Therapists will think they are helping a couple out... or a child and their mother/father out, or two friends out, but in reality the manipulation and lack of direct communication amongst all parties causes false information to be spread, THUS continuing to harm the victim and keep them trauma-bonded. . Narcissists do this when you bring them to therapy. Either they got there because they believe they are depressed and anxious or you begged them because of their behaviors at home. They may also want certain prescriptions and easy access at all times so they may exaggerate or lie about symptoms to get a diagnosis (which will also be used against the victim going to therapy with the narcissist.) A victim may think, "oh my my poor baby is suffering... I must always stay to help..." Which is just manipulation and triangulation at work!!! . They will exaggerate (if a Delusional Narcissist-these types usually believe in what they say) everything they say about you to their therapist and even believe it to an extent. But if they are an aware narcissist the Triangulation tool is used against you and the narc says something kind of like this: "Now everyone will believe these lies. Fuck em. They're under my control. Hahaha!" Yes, narcissists can be that seriously demented especially when psychopathic. . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@realproductions98

Ladies... I know you feel stressed Helpless with none left Nobody by your side That’ll help you through the struggles All the tough times When you feel sad, depressed, lonely and left out Feels like you can’t rest without Thinking and feeling a mess You can’t rely on this generation Of “men” to protect you at their best They’re too worried about how you Look, feel, and taste How they’ll get you undressed Instead of making sure you heal You’re emotionally set Your heart and mind are on the right track And making sure you know they’re there Til death takes their last breath...let’s go back to the old ways and start treating women RIGHT #women #ladies #stressed #helpless #sidekick #struggling #toughtimes #sad #depressed #lonely #leftout #norest #mess #weakgeneration #abusivemen #cowards #protection #look #feel #taste #lust #naked #heal #youremotions #heart #mind #righttrack #death #lastbreath #northernmichigan

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@maya.ranae

"Narcissists Are Foolishly Predictable" - Exposing The Narcissist, YouTube. - They hate change. They like when things stay the same. - All of them all over the world are connected through the same motherboard. Like a computer system or robot. Once you identify NPD, you can predict and figure out any next move. "It is not just a mental illness. It is a disease of the soul" - #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

PTSD or C-PTSD are valid as any other. Yes, verbal abuse can give as much damage and mental health problems as r*pe. I've experienced both, but what does that matter. And it doesn't depend on who is doing it to who or what relationship they have. There are so many stories of a parent who got away from their triggering household and family because they married a narcissist or druggie abuser (which can lean into a narcissistic personality created by drug abuse) and then had other narcissistic family members or even a narc kid. I've read so many of your stories and some are of a parents perspective who developed C-PTSD from the constant yelling/screaming/belittling/gaslighting/manipulation/trauma-bonded etc done by their own precious child. Our abusers "mental issues" or past traumas (in rare cases this is the case) don't give them the right to be pitied and forgiven or to abuse you for whatever reason they make up in their pathetic little head. That gentleness is meant for you to give yourself. - #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@lyfquotz

#Repost @narcissist_mr_m ・・・ We’ve all tried to change the narcissist for the better, but in the end you could never change someone you’ll only end up changing yourself!! This ever happened to you?!! #Narcissist #Abusivewomen #Abusivemen #narcissisticfamily #Personalitydisorder #Coaching #Toxicpeople #psychopath #liar #Awareness #Survivor #narc #npd #gym #girls #guys #Motivation #Insta #instagood #Staystrong #fitfam #Canada #usa #Hope #Help #Depression #Anxiety #ptsd #mentalhealth

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@gracepowerstrength

👇🏼 Didn’t you get so tired of being treated like a child? It’s like they cannot fathom you have your own ideas to bring to the table and this is supposed to be a partnership not a dictatorship. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏼 • When I was first married I was about as green as Kermit. I had no idea how to navigate the world because of my controlled narc childhood. I had just learned how to pump gas at 21. Learned to drive. Had never flown. Didn’t know the first thing about how to figure a checkbook. But I learned. He enjoyed playing my father, teacher, savior. However when I grew up there was nothing left for him to do. I outgrew him and needing as much. His controlling ways worsened. I called him controlling and he’d just stare at me confused. The emotional abuse amped up. My anxiety went through the roof and became overwhelming. The remarks of “I don’t know how you manage while I’m at work.” while I was perfectly equipped and able to work part time, run a home and care for kids; one with Asperger’s. #marriage • 👉🏼No... that was HIM #npd feeling threatened and wanting to diminish what I could do on my own. Narcs love to act like you can’t make it without them. They want you dependent on some level so you won’t get too self assured and maybe just maybe say enough, see your worth and leave them. • If you’re living this now I can gently say it will not get better. They will continue to make you feel like an inadequate child that must be parented and leave you feeling voiceless, powerless, and even hopeless. • You deserve better than this 💖 • • • #marriagecoach #dysfunctionalfamily #generationaltrauma #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationship #controlling #toxicpeople #relationships #npdsurvivor #narcissism #emotionalabuse #partnership #unhealthyrelationships #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusive #youdontownme #youdontloveme #thatsnotlove #narcissisticabuse #lifeafterdivorce #divorcinganarcissist #emotionaltrauma #divorced #divorce #fightorflight #ptsdtherapy

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@somethingsemi

He was so good for her they said. She should be lucky to have him. He was successful in his career , he was caring , he claimed to love her very much , he constantly kept complimenting her. Constantly. He was her caste. He was a true gentleman. He always said the right things. But beneath that seemingly perfect man was an actual asshole waiting to burst out. He however never showed it. But she could feel it in her bones. The way he said things which she wanted to hear. The way his lips curled down sometimes when he was getting bothered but chose not to show. The way he made every decisions hers and basked in the radiance of his magnanimity. The way he loved playing victim. Constantly making her the villain with his actions and not words. The signs were so subtle sometimes she thought she was imagining them. No one would believe her even if she told. Her own mom was smitten by him. But she knew. #abusivemen #ministories #theyknow #theyknowthatweknow #mentalhealth #meredithgrey #instastories

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@steadymeandering

He was so good for her they said. She should be lucky to have him. He was successful in his career , he was caring , he claimed to love her very much , he constantly kept complimenting her. Constantly. He was her caste. He was a true gentleman. He always said the right things. But beneath that seemingly perfect man was an actual asshole waiting to burst out. He however never showed it. But she could feel it in her bones. The way he said things which she wanted to hear. The way his lips curled down sometimes when he was getting bothered but chose not to show. The way he made every decisions hers and basked in the radiance of his magnanimity. The way he loved playing victim. Constantly making her the villain with his actions and not words. The signs were so subtle sometimes she thought she was imagining them. No one would believe her even if she told. Her own mom was smitten by him. But she knew. #abusivemen #ministories #theyknow #theyknowthatweknow #mentalhealth #meredithgrey #instastories

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@stayathomemomgonewrong

I’m done. I’m done living in fear. I’m done excepting less. I’m done compromising with someone who NEVER COMPROMISES. I’m done dealing with a person that makes problems, only to offer me the solutions as a gift, like he didn’t CREATE the problem! I’m done trying to guess what he’s capable of, and I’m done trying to believe that ANYTHING good still resides in him. I’m done arguing. I’m done believing any of his lies or excuses. At this point my hope lies in this new judge. If I lose? Guess what? I’m already kinda there, so I’ll acclimate to that too. I miss my babies and none of this is good for them or me. I’m done trying to fix something that I didn’t wreck. And I’m sick of him always trying to convince me this isn’t about ME. Clearly it is or he wouldn’t be so fixated, conniving, and determined to break my spirit. I’m done. @thecoparentingcollective @narcissist_survivor @jacksonvillemom @coparenting_with_a_narc_ @jacksonvillemomsblog @gainesvilleflmomsblog @jaxbeachmoms @dad_or_alive @gainesvillesun @wcjb20 #coparenting #coparentingdoneright #coparentingwithanarcissist #stayathomemomgonewrong #stayathomemoms #stayathomedad #sahmomlife #familtyfirst #familycourt #childrenfirst #sociopath #sociopathawareness #coparentingwithasociopath #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #abusivemen @theellenshow @reecewitherspoon @scarymommy

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@maya.ranae

They refuse to get into or abruptly end conversations with loved ones using what psychologists call "Stonewalling." It's a temper tantrum and an emotional abuse and control tactic used by these toddler-like adults. They may do it to avoid "awkward" topics, inflict pain, gain leverage. . #stonewalling #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

Don't forget about your little cuddle buddies. They deserve a happy, safe environment just like you! This is what I found through a little bit of research on the animal's end when it comes to narcs or generally abusive, constantly loud households. The shock and constant stress can lead to heart attacks like it did with a little animal I knew once. They're sensitive creatures, too. It's not your fault, blame the narcissist. Our animals love us! . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@peace_light_love_happiness

A small glimpse into how these abusers minds work 📖 👀 how narcissists operate can be very difficult to get your head around at first, when you first start learning who you’ve truly been dealing with, and what their true intentions and motives are beneath the fake role they play so well at times. The person behind the mask. They are jealous and envious of EVERYONE around them. Hence why they seek to put them down, make them feel worthless, less-than, humiliated and broken. That then makes them feel “bigger and better” than the person they were initially envious of, and makes them feel powerful as they “put them in their place” continuously throughout these toxic relationships.. by cheating, by going missing causing worry and distress, by being verbally and physically abusive, by being inappropriate which can then be humiliating and embarrassing, by belittling and criticising every little thing about the person... their taste in music, their sense of style and what they wear, their friendship group and family... how they cook, how they clean... everything becomes something to mock. And over time that has huge adverse affects on the person at the receiving end, believe me 😌 My ex even used to try and joke about the fact by Dad had died when I was 5, and about my real-Mum being out there somewhere, unknown to me at that time, having been brought up in the Care system, by lovely foster parents. He pulled my whole life and everything in it, to pieces... breaking my identity down to crumbles, over the course of the 15 years I was with him. When I left; I had zero sense of self. I felt lost and could barely make even simple decisions for myself anymore. That is not normal when leaving a relationship. Gaslighting is also a huge form of abuse, that again, leaves you toxically unsure of yourself and unable to trust your own reality. Psychological abuse takes years to heal from. If you are in a relationship that resembles anything like this (look up the red flags, or I may post them actually) PLEASE, leave. Leave, get to safety and take any help and support you can ❤️ #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissticabuseawareness #toxicrelationships #toxicmarriage #abuse

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@maya.ranae

So. Bottom line. Run. Or walk fashionably away with your head held high.☀💜👑 I'm still curious as to how their brains physically look... They are wired differently by fate and by circumstance, but can and will control themselves and what they do... But the different wiring is what makes them control the wheel down a dark road! It's like an alien from another planet. That alien from another species has it's own ways of feeding, breathing, and generally doing everything it does. Don't feel pity for it. Learn it's not of this Earth and not meant to be with us human beings. . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@kaleidoscope_eyes_1111

A real man is honest. So the braggart putting himself on a place of deserving her and putting a woman in a place of owing him oughta be a GIANT REDFLAG OF A PREDATOR!!!!!!! IT’S NOT ROCKET SCIENCE! Men keep men accountable that’s not a woman’s job!!!!!! #abusivemen #predators But please tell me again how women just allow these creeps to run rampant, and not men allow men to run rampant?!!!!!!! Where’s any code of honor?!!!!!! #codeofhonor #ninenoblevirtues

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@kaleidoscope_eyes_1111

People don’t like to be around those abused as a child, we eventually grow up and get tired of the abuse! It will be frustrating to be so accountable for how you treat people I guess. #scripturefororphans #orphansandwidows #psalm1469 Awwww please say in writing how when someone doesn’t allow abuse to be brushed off it’s just them overreacting or being TOO SENSITIVE?! ✨😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂✨ ✨🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮✨ Met one man who helped me and didn’t say any part of my dignity was required after. Hmmmmmmm A “boy” tells me about a steampunk convention and acts like I’m a bad person because I didn’t give him payment! WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?! DRINKING THE KOOLAID! I ESCAPED HELL MY DIGNITY INTACT! No thanks to gross people trying! Go tell more neighbors about all you did for the woman seeking solace, tell them how ungrateful that little saucy wench was! Tell them how BIG of a man you are for a waffle and telling me about something that changed my life! Tell them what a good person you are and what a bad person I am because I wasn’t grateful! Right?! You CREEP! #thingscreepsdo #creep #predators #sacramentopredators #sacramentosexualpredator IF YOU EVER APPROACH ME AGAIN I WILL BE VERY CLEAR YOU NEED TO STEP 100 FEET AWAY, DON’T STARE AT ME CREEPILY FROM A DISTANCE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT OWED ONE SINGLE MOMENT OF MY ESSENCE! GET YOUR OWN SELF WORTH YOU PSYCHOPATH! HOW PEOPLE FAIL TO NOTICE THE PSYCHOPATHS AMONG THEM IS BEYOND MY COMPREHENSION! THEY GO AROUND BRAGGING THEMSELVES TO HIGH HEAVEN AND TRASHING THE PERSON THAT DIDN’T PAY THEM NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY! IT’S NOT ROCKET SCIENCE! IT’S HOW MEN ABUSE WOMEN! AND IT’S NOT UP TO WOMEN TO PROTECT AGAINST CREEPS IT’S UP TO SOCIETY ESPECIALLY OTHER MEN OF CHARACTER TO NOTICE! There’s a great TedTalks about men keeping men accountable. But instead men of “character” say shit like, “Why did you allow him to do it?” #mensissues #abusivemen #stupidityofmen #stalkersbelike NO! WHY DOES SOCIETY REFUSE TO KEEP MEN ACCOUNTABLE EVER?!!!! EVERRRRRRRR?! Domestic abuse, police be like, “you dated him,” friends. “I’m sure you provoked it,” outsiders, “you allowed it.”

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@maya.ranae

These are some extra hoover tactics/can even lean over into stalking done by the narcissist when you break up. No matter how trivial and innocent their call/text/dm/email/letter/ may seem, block and never reply to the toxic person that was once in your life. Do not reply. Do not engage. Narcissists are notorious for stalking. Stalking is a crime. The courts can put the stalker away in prison NOT jail. Hopefully, if it is ever repeated. And DON'T be afraid to pursue that. Sometimes you may not want to, but it is necessary for survival in some peoples cases. . SET UP HIDDEN CAMERA SYSTEMS AROUND YOUR HOUSE AND IN YOUR CARS!!! (If you can afford it or find something cheap) Or move if you can and don't post about it on social media!!! then immediately give camera evidence to police once you have evidence. Don't wait to gather more. Just keep calling the police when new evidence arrives... . Narcissistic personalities are obsessive stalkers and hooverers. They do not respect your wishes and boundaries. You cannot tell them to leave you alone without them always placing blame or getting angry, "well you started this..." Or something. They cannot admit wrongs without wanting to shove their heads against a wall... and good let them. Just go No Contact, Show Indifference, Block, Delete. . I was stalked/hoovered by the "hey, how are you" texts MONTHS after the break up. I was scared for my mom being home alone because the day after i broke up with this narcissist, I went to New Hampshire with my dad, brother, and uncle, and a gang of others to go hiking. My mom doesn't like to go hiking so she stays home. I was always keeping contact with her. So that's another scary story haha . #stalking #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #hoovering #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulatio

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@sony_crystal

.. . You’re beautiful, so he is going to..... . #sonycrystal #abusivemen

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@danceintherain_tillyoubloom

I do think that if some of the men I've known in my life were comforted as tearful little boys and had their feelings validated instead of being ignored or told to 'man up' following the patriarchal rules and ideals of society that they wouldn't have grown up to be so angry, defensive and ultimately abusive. On international mens day it's important to make clear that feminism supports equality and is against toxic masculinity as it is not equal. And that men can be feminists too and support gender equality as much as women can. It's a fight against patriarchy which fails everyone, not a fight against men. Our little boys should be able to express their feelings, men are allowed to be scared and sad. They don't need to 'man up'. Boys do cry. Don't let patriarchy tell us otherwise. #feminism #patriarchy #toxicmasculinity #genderequality #sunset #sunrise #internationalmensday #perhapsiftearfullittleboyswerecomforted #patriarchyfailsmentoo #boysdocry #patriarchyfails #lookaftereachother #mentalhealth #abusivemen #survivor #narcissist #npd #danceintherain #questtohappy #spreadlightandlove #awareness #narcissisticabuse #lessonsivelearned #tuesdaythoughts

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@maya.ranae

Too easy now to tell who's a shit friend and who's a genuine friend. You can just feel it especially as an empath. Too many times I've been that "convenience" for someone. Now I just float through relationships without giving a fuck. . Let me clarify: when I say I don't give a fuck. It doesn't mean I don't care about relationships or myself or life. It means I have enough self love and self respect to not care if someone leaves me life, or treats me with disrespect. I do not rely mt emotions or wellbeing on family or friends. If you want to leave. Ok. If you want to see me as someone to hangout with because you're bored or a convenience. Ok. I still keep up boundaries and have self respect, though. That's what I mean by "i dont give a fuck" . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #empath #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #empathproblems #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@not.a.doormat

🗝When I think about the statistics of Domestic Violence and how 1 in 4 women have experienced Intimate Partner Violence and 1 in 9 men have as well, it makes me wonder about the childhoods of the people perpetuating the abuse.🗝 .. It’s obvious to me that the reason more women experience DV later in life is because more little boys experienced some form of abuse in their childhoods, cultivating them to become violent perpetrators as they grew. .. I don’t think it’s fair to discount the fact that abusers become abusers because of unresolved and unhealed trauma. The man that hit me repeatedly...well, at one point in time he was a little boy, taking fist after fist of “discipline” and an extreme amount of parental neglect. .. I am NOT saying there is any excuse for abuse, because there isn’t. Also, sometimes abusers simply are the way they are because of their choices - childhood experiences set aside. .. I personally would like to see more talk about healing broken men, who are hurting little boys on the inside. I believe addressing the core of our country’s issue with DV includes having more regular conversations about the tears that men cry. The hurts they don’t talk about. The love they longed to feel as a child and never did. .. Ladies, I know some of you reading this may feel less sympathetic with this topic, and I understand. I was beat nightly by my own dad as a teenager. I watched him violently abuse my mother my entire life. I am not trying to make excuses or say that your pain means less - because it doesn’t. .. I am just trying to say that all of us can be more compassionate and understanding than we are - not every abuser is a man and not every victim is a female. Tears are cried by all genders - and every person feels and processes pain differently. .. Abuse is not right no matter what gender you are. We must help one another heal and make this conversation more commonplace. Let’s all work on healing our childhood wounds - and put an end to DV forever! .. .. .. #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticabuse #abuse #abusesurvivor #emotionalabuse #mencrytoo #abusedmen #sheisnotyourrehab #toxicpeople

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@maya.ranae

I have a shit ton of anger issues and mental illness. However, I treat people in my life and around me with kind interactions. Having mental illness or trauma problems doesn't mean they're bound to hurt you. Psychologists say it's not as likely as you'd think... They're only bound to harm one person, and that's themselves. Mental illness is defined by this. Not defined by hurting others. Otherwise it wouldn't be a mental illness, it'd be a prick who just doesn't put their empathy first, and instead their wants. .!!! Narcissistic PD isn't defined by causing harm to others. Narcissists can be who they are without having the disorder, and still wreak havoc... NPD is defined by having 6-9 criterion symptoms that cause distress and impairment in the person themselves. .!!! #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

This^ is not healthy or ok. This is abuse. Do not stay with someone that treats you like this no matter what. . What healthy looks like: Let them give you the consent to destroy USELESS (not their things...) things nearby before you do so. Such as if you're close to a person and happen to get furious when you're with them (not at them obviously) they have to give you consent to "act out." . I've done this before for example where a best friend of mine knew how I liked to get my frustrations/stress/angry by punching a bag (even yoga...all sorts of weird ways) or something...and she'd let tell me, "Here, I'll be back with a bat and you can smash all the shit you want at ___. And I'll be right here for you.. like you are for me." . Normal people do what i have just explained^ if they are the types to use anger for healing. Abuse does not equal anger. And anger does not equal abuse. Don't let abusers use their anger on you. Don't settle for thinking it's ok or "their mentally ill" ..no. You can also teach an abusive person these things^ but unfortunately, it may not help at all. It never really has. #abuseisachoice . And it's healthy in it's own way. Violence. Yes. Haha. But NOT when you're surprising someone with it. That's intimidating/triggering/scary AND abusive. I'd never do that. I don't have it in my heart no matter how "trivial" it may seem to some of you. . Also in the case where someone is getting angry and screaming and throwing cups or food or something across the room/at you/even away from you IS abusive. And it can trigger the wrong person REALLY badly.. . . Everyone's experience with abusers is valid. Abusers are not victims. . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@raedioactivecandy

Hey there loves. Here's another predator that you need to be on the watch for . Report. Block. Delete. Pass it on. #womensupportingwomen #abusivemen #predatorsofinstagram #protectwomen #protectyaneck #goodlookingout

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@durtystaxx

Told her “You’ll never find a nigga quite like me , hold u tight like me , hold u down like me !” #newmusic #post #durtystaxx #studio #music #follow #comment #deservebetter #losethatloser #selfworth #abuse #familyviolence #abusivemen #controlling #lucky Stay tuned , next post has a sneak into the first verse ! #comingsoon #moneybaggkartel #real #words #facebook #twitter #instagram #snapchat #add #me #durtystaxx

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@maya.ranae

This was from an interview done with Dr. Allen Frances, the creator of the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder in the DSM. Trump is indeed a Narcissist! And that doesn't take away the damage he's done just because he doesn't qualify for the "personality disorder" part. As the Doctor said, the President meets all criteria except for 2 diagnosis symptoms. Typically, psychologists want to see have 6 of the 9 to have a diagnosis WITH impairment and distress within the individual THEMSELVES. Now, keep in mind, this does not mean that just because someone is living in distress with their disorder, that it excuses what they've done to you or the trauma they created in your life. Narcissists and those who qualify for Narcissistic PD, can both wreak havoc and cause trauma. All victims are valid. And as Dr. Allen Frances said himself, diagnosing Donald Trump when he most likely does not qualify for the disorder, is stigmatizing mental illness. . #trump2020 #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #trump #rapevictim #impeachtrump #fucktrump #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #trumpsupporters #npdvictim #trumpisajoke #rapeculture #npdawareness #donaldtrump #rapesurvivor #trumpisanarcissist #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #trumpisarapist

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@bebedollz93

He created something beyond his own believings and lost it all for his own wrong doings . #domesticviolenceawareness #familyabuse #relationshipquotes #abusivemen

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@maya.ranae

He said, "But you can't drive me home until I'm sober. My mom will kill me! Please don't...[other shit I don't recall]"; "I get sober quicker when I jack off, but I can't do it myself, it'll be faster if you help." First off, I didn't want to hangout with him getting drunk that night anyway, and I immediately drove him home as he had a raging temper tantrum because, as we all know, narcissists can't take "No" for an answer. He wouldn't stop complaining and begging and he thought he was sly with his wording (because he said it better than what I typed up there,) but I left him at his house. He also pretended to be drunker than he was. He was just buzzed honestly. This is exact narcissist pd behavior!!! And more... His mom didn't "kill him", he raged at her to put her in his place. You can't tell a narcissistic personality what to do. How to act. Or bring up their bad behaviors without them rolling their eyes at you. Only anger like this comes from npd. Not bipolar. Not borderline. Not depression. Not stress. Not anything. This is diagnosable npd behavior. And I never understood that before. I know the differences between bipolar borderline and narcissist. And I'm glad I do. . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #rapevictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #rape #rapeisnotok

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@maya.ranae

I know it's long, sorry, but y'all should be doing some reading anyway I'm sure. I highlighted all the ones I've personally seen.. and just some good highlights to mention. . Many people don't talk much about friendship abuse, children abusing. It's usually related to partnership and marriages. Don't forget about the people abused by their narcissistic friend or by their child. @doctorwiserelationshipsystems - youtube. . #narcissisticchild #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissistichusband #ptsd #narcissisticchildren #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@maya.ranae

If you don't want to be honest or completely honest about what you are doing, what you've done to someone, your intentions, your actions, who you are- then news flash- that's called manipulation! I have enough self-respect and self love to no longer tolerate such behaviors around me. "Manipulate: control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously." . It's easy to spot a narcissist when you have knowledge of this disease, but if a narcissist- even takes psychology courses- on their own inhuman brain, they will still deny it (consciously or subconsciously.) It amazes me. . #abuseisabuse #abuseisachoice #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #abuseisnotlove #stressedout #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #mentalillness #ptsd #mentaldisorder #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@stayathomemomgonewrong

These days it’s not just the moms staying at home, there are some awesome Daddy’s who when given the opportunity decided to stay home. This is for all of you... This is for every father whose been screwed over... and in this new world of “equal rights”? (Yes we want them, no it’s not cool for this to happen to ANYONE, nor has it ever been ok) This is for the Mothers who now share their pain. I just want to put it out there that I had my mother sign off my fathers debt as a teenager. I’ve NEVER supported kicking someone while they are down, nor do I support vengeance. I didn’t have a relationship with my father, but I know there are many men out there who just WISHED they could and have had to work like slaves to pay a woman who wouldn’t let them be a part of their children’s lives. If we unite our voices, no matter our gender? Maybe one day the justice system will change and stop favoring power, money and sexes. . @family_law_matters @news4jax @gainesvillesun @kramer_law @floridawomenmagazine #advocacy #familylaw #floridafamilylaw #florida #divorce #divorceattorney #attorneyproblems #attorneylife #familylawattorney #stayathomemom #stayathomemomlife #stayathomedad #stayathomedadlife #jacksonvillemoms #womensupportingwomen #womenempoweringwomen #jacksonvilleblogger #familyfirst @thecoparentingcollective @narcissist_survivor @jacksonvillemom @coparenting_with_a_narc_ @jacksonvillemomsblog @gainesvilleflmomsblog @jaxbeachmoms @dad_or_alive @gainesvillesun @wcjb20 #coparenting #coparentingdoneright #coparentingwithanarcissist #sociopath #sociopathawareness #coparentingwithasociopath #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #abusivemen @theellenshow @reecewitherspoon @scarymommy

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@womenin_

Okay as promised! We are going to talk about NARCISSISTS. First of all, I want to start by stating a few fact. 1. Narcissists are not always men, there are also women who are narcissistic. But men are more likely to be narcissists than women. 2. Most narcissists have no idea they are narcissistic. 3.it is possible/okay to have some of these traits I'm going to mention in my next post 🔽 so long as its not on the extreme side. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@womenin_

We are going to to talk about narcissists... in details! Stay tuned. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@jollyknockersclub

My ex was always giving me and anyone who would listen this sad ass sob story about his exs cheating on him and breaking up his family. In his story they were keeping him from his kids and only wanted money from him. His ex bosses were jealous of him and all his coworkers. Yeah right... He abused and cheated on the exs and tried to triangulate them with me. His ex boss fired him because he was lazy and spending company money. His coworkers saw through his bs and stood up to him. The truth is always there, you just have to look. #truth #triangulation #flyingmonkeys #instagram #hoover #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissisticabuserecovery #domesticviolencesurvivor #lies #liesontopoflies #caseoftheex #growthmindset #childhood #singlemoms #momlife #mom #socialmedia #hunt #lovebombing #loveyourself #selfcare #healing #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #fathers #law #restrainingorder #youdeservebetter

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@seasirenvalley

The greatest trick the Devil pulled was convincing the world there was only one of him. Evil is unspectacular and always human, And shares our bed and eats at our own table .. Evil believes himself clever. Evil underestimates good when she has had enough. #evil #sad #wooksdoingthings #cheaters #freedom #life #lifewellspent #lifewelllived #startingover #evilneverwins #evilneverdies #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissists #abuser #recovery #abusivemen #notallwoundsarevisible #shameless #cheatersexposed #happiness #movingontobetterthings #movingon

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@maya.ranae

............................Ya know they can really be entitled pricks. It can go any way. Thinkin you have to give them something "back" or whatever. If someone has ever whined and complained about not getting the sex they believe they deserved from you, and you gave in. That's sexual abuse. Slap the living shit out of them right there, then run. Sex is about love. It's about giving what you're willing and comfortable to give, and recieving what you're willing and comfortable to recieve. It can and will be different each time. Not "i did this for you. You have to do it for me too right now" ... . #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #narcissismquotes #narcissism #narcissisticmother #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissisticparent #rapesurvivor #rapevictim #rape #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@womenin_

"The term prostitute is a name reserved for every woman. You just have to piss off the right man📷 : @ayodoodles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@womenin_

I keep saying this queens, do not look up to anyone for validation. You are indirectly handing them the key to your happiness and self esteem, which ever way they turn it, you will go. Find your worth in yourself, believe in your self, do not be afraid to speak up. Be bold enough to say NO. Look into the mirror at any chance you get and gush over yourself... Find courage within yourself, be your role model... Let nothing else matter but YOU! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@me_too2000086

You can shave your head. Still won’t hide who you really are. You can push her around and lie and threaten the safety of her kids! Still doesn’t hide who you are. Abusive!! Privileged!! Asshole!! Stay the fuck away from her!! #peoplewhohireabusers #abusivemen #liar #audiomack #stayaway #juijitsuabuser #lame #mattcomposure #trapsymphony @audiomack

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@maya.ranae

I don't believe anyone's claims no matter who they are to me. I take everything with a grain of salt. I don't care who YOU are to me. How long I've known you. How worthy you may seem of my trust to be put into you. Take it with a pinch of salt... I take no one's side besides my own. And that's NOT disloyalty before you roll your eyes... There's a time and place for everything ;) . #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissistsurvivor #narcissismrecovery #narcissismawareness #narcissismquotes #narcissism #narcissisticmother #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticfather #narcissisticparent #ptsd #ptsdsurvivor #cptsd #abusivefriendship #abusiverelationships #abusivemen #abusiveboyfriend #npdvictim #npdawarnessarndvictimrecovery #npdsurvivor #npdawareness #fcknpd #sickmen #npdabuse #manipulation #manipulators #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness

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@womenin_

Dear Queen! Its time to change the game. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@womenin_

Hello beautiful! You have the power to be whatever you want to be. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #womenin #woman #love #beauty #selflove #relationship #lifequotes #motivationalquotes #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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@womenin_

Think about this 👆 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusivemen #violence #women #womenin #domesticviolence #womenrights #loveit #love #lovely #loveyourself #beauty #life #lifequotes #lifestyle #ankarastyles #allnigerianrecipes #naija #mercy

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