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Every tiny change you make today will grow to become a huge improvement in the future. One tiny step will take you far if you stick to change. And your brain will help you with this. Never give up! Read my article “How to Make Friends with the Brain and Learn to Live with Joy”. Link in Bio (as usual) 😁 See you! . . . #challenge #choosejoy #joyful #childhoodtraumarecovery #cptsd #cptsdrecovery #difficultmothers #dysfunctionalfamily #motherwound #narcissisticmother #toxicmother #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticparent #healthyboundaries #codependency #healingquotes #traumarecovery #developmentaltrauma #traumainformed #relationaltrauma #abusiverelationships #lifelessons #todaysmantra #tinybuddha #positivelypresent #positivelypositive #emotionalhealth #psychologytoday #pegstreep #theartidote©

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In this episode, Izzy talks about communication! Verbal vs Non Verbal and also touches on Verbal Abuse such as the silent treatment! Stay tuned. . . EP 15: Express it or Repress it 12/08/19 @ 7pm/PST . . #verbalabuse #gaslighting #insults #manipulation #silenttreatment #abusiverelationships #familyabuse #communication #mentalhealth #wellness

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[ #motherwound series] Our society tells us this myth that ours mothers are inherently capable of loving us and responding to our needs simply because they birthed us. But what it doesn’t tell us is that not all mothers can do that. No wonder some of us live with a skewed perception of what love is. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I don’t have to become a mother to know that birthing a child and truly being able to look after her are two VERY different things.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ My mother’s excuse for her harmful words, actions and behaviours towards me was “But I am your mother!”; with a great emphasis on ‘I’ and ‘mother’. “Because I said so!” ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ These were her her go-to responses if I didn’t do as she pleased or questioned her. She’d do a lot of things that would directly or indirectly cause me harm, and then tell me that she was looking out for me.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ It’s pretty normal for a mother to get worked up, say or do things she didn’t quite intend to in that moment. But if your relationship with her was predominantly these “bad” days, and if that negatively affected how you look at yourself, what you believe about yourself, your safety, and your well-being, then there might be something deeper at play. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Couple of years into my healing journey, I learned that my mother had narcissistic tendencies, which practically meant that she could barely see past herself. It all suddenly started to make sense then. She was incapable of loving me, even if it was for her own reasons. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ So I realised it was time for me to get very clear about the kind of relationship I wanted with her going forward. I had to learn how to set boundaries, communicate assertively and non-defensively, and put all my focus and energy onto healing my inner child and reparenting myself. Six years later, I can confidently say thatI am glad I took some drastic measures for the sake of my well-being. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ If you were raised by a mother who was incapable of loving and supporting you the way you needed, it’s time to provide that to yourself. It’s time to tend to your inner child with compassion and reparent yourself all over again. You are not alone in this. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Thoughts? 👇🏼⁣ ⁣ ⁣

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Let’s talk about the small mistakes that we hate ourselves for. . A typo. . Getting one word confused for another. . Running late to an event because you wrote down the time wrong. . Undercooking chicken one time and having to put it back in the oven. . Buying shoes and realizing the next week they don’t really fit that well. . Getting a B- on a test. . . . #boundary #boundaries #healthyboundaries #setboundaries #academicachievement . #boundariesarehealthy #boundariesarebeautiful #settingboundaries #noboundaries #boundariescrossed . #setlimits #limits #mentalhealth #healthylifestyle #gradschool . #peaceful #peacefullness #peacefullmind #protectyourpeace #protectyourenergy . #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxicfamily #abusiverelationships #abusiverelationship . #workplaceculture #academia #workplacebullying #bullying #takebackyourlink

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📢 BE YOUR OWN ADVOCATE I trusted what other people had to say about my ex. So many sang his praises and I was convinced that I had hit the jackpot. My personal relationship with him proved him to be the exact opposite. I went through so much pain because I was naive and dependent on what others thought. HUGE MISTAKE. ___ You are one of the best judges of whether or not someone is good for you. Listening to what family and friends have to say is important but don't forget to properly evaluate your relationship for yourself. Be honest and don't make excuses for negative or unfavorable behavior. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. Never assume that someone is a good fit for your life just because they look the part or are highly recommended. ___ #MomentswithMissy #MsMissySpeaks #DomesticViolenceAwareness #notavictimanymore #HealingFromDV #abusesurvivor #disableddiva #thestruggleisreal #ifmyscarswerevisible #iftheyonlyknewthetruth #istilllovehimtho #lifeafterabuse #gonethroughhelll #emotionalabuse #emotionalrollercoaster  #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #abusiverelationships #loveshouldnthurt #sickofbeinghurt #boybye #beyondthepain

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Excellent words. Repost from @narcissistrecovery

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It seems like the more I get to know the Lord, the less I realize I actually know of Him. . His ways and His thoughts are higher than mine. The way He works is usually not the way I would expect Him to work. . When I ask Him for healing or for patience or to be more gracious, it's not by the snap of His fingers that it happens. Instead it's through trials and suffering. . I've asked the Lord to never let me lose any passion for Him. Like the first time I was cut to the heart. Like the first time I fell in love with Him. Like the first time I saw with my spiritual eyes, how He looked at me. . I don't know how He answers this prayer, but I have a feeling it's through grace. Somehow I find myself falling down again at His feet. On my face in tears. And always He comforts me. Always He holds me. Always He carries me. Always He restores me and renews me. . Oh how I long to know You more and more, Lord. Because a relationship with You is the sweetest thing I've ever known. And I want more of it every day.

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I have had so much fun and learnt so much over the last few months since launching "The Purple Warriors Podcast" & I'm looking so forward to the exciting things that 2020 has in store! In this coming year - we will be diving deeper into topics that help survivors to understand what they're experiencing and assist in their recovery, and mostly to encourage every single woman who has experienced any form of family violence that their is hope and many avenues of help available. I am currently booking in guest spots for 2020. If you have a topic you would like to talk about on the show or if you would like to share your own survival story I'd love to hear from you. (If you have been a guest before and feel you have another topic you'd like to speak about - let me know!) Message me or email to [email protected]

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Narcissists tend to behave in a horrible yet predictable pattern when in conflict with another (especially a relationship partner). The narcissist will twist reality to weave a distorted story of their “victim” status and manipulate others in to believing that the partner/ex-partner was an abuser. * See my latest blog for some typical patterns that narcissists use to manipulate their victims - link in the bio! #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissists #narcissistfree #narcissistsurvivorgroup #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissistawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #covertnarcissist #narcissistabuse #narcissistredflag #narcissistsurvivor #narcissistrecovery #narcissistic #narcissistabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuseawareness #relationship #therapist #therapists #therapistsofinstagram #phillytherapist #unhealthyrelationships #relationshipissues #bewellphilly #mainline #mainlinepa #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationships

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It is so hard to explain the narcissist to others around you. People doubt what you say because the narc just appears so damn charming its hard to believe that you could be describing the same person that they know. They are smooth, personable and cheery characters when out in public. They want people to buy into their fake persona and go out of their way to fool people into thinking they are a great person. You come off looking like the liar which gains the narc even more sympathy and respect. Narcs don't play fair, all they know is how to con. #narcissist #traumabonding #traumabond #narcawareness #stonewalling #narcissitabusesurvivor #narcissist #narcissistabuse #narcissistsurvivorgroup #narcawareness #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #narcissistrecovery #narcissistawareness #narcissistsurvivor #narcissistfree #narcissistabuse #narcissitabuserecovery #covertnarcissist #toxicrelationships #manipulators #manipulativepeople #manipulation #sociopath #psychopathfree #psychology #abuse #codependency #addictions #abusiverelationships

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💓💓💓On behalf of all who are victims of; physical, emotional, sexual, psychological, financial abuse, the loss of a loved one, any kind of abuse, trauma or neglect, LISTEN to me 👂 YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE THE TIME OF HEALING THAT YOU NEED TO RECOVER AND HEAL! Don’t let anyone judge you and tell you to heal quickly, just because so and so did. Your story is yours! Your journey is yours. Whether it’s been recent, or it’s been years, you are allowed to have all the time you need to heal. You are not alone. Don’t believe the things you tell yourself on your bad days. It’s all a lesson to be learned. You are worthy and you are loved. You are stronger than you think. You are stronger than you know💪🏽💓💓💓 #selflove #abusesurvivor #sexual #abuse #survivor #love #peace #lightworker #emotional #trauma #victims #warriors #healers #earthangels #physicalabusesurvivor #strength #mentalhealth #anxiety #depression #panicdisorder #loss #death #light #abusiverelationships #healing #selfhealers #godschild #godlovesyou #goodvibes #positivity

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Domestic violence affects people of all backgrounds—but, for victims and survivors with disabilities, an abusive partner may use their disability as a way to further harm or control them. For example, an abuser may limit access to medication or healthcare, tamper with assistive technology, prevent them from accessing bank accounts or benefits, and more. #awareness #domesticviolence #GoodReads #notodomesticviolence #stopdomesticviolence #loveisrespect #breakyoursilence #breakthesilence #emotionalabuse #abusesurvivor #abusevictims #selfcare #selflove #speakout #abusiverelationships #support #empowerment #domesticviolencesurvivor

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