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What on earth? Looks like #twatwaffle is trying to send a message? My decoder ring is broken... any suggestions? Someone needs to friend her on fb.. #affairrecovery #betrayedwife #nothinglefttofightfor #twatwaffle #infidelitysucks #rulerofmyownheart #affairssuck #karmawillbitchslapyougood

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And she is as dumb as a box of rocks... This was her message to me after Mothers Day when my MIL attacked me in front of my daughter at Kohls. When my MIL let it spill that the whore was reporting to her everything on a PRIVATE twitter account. She was still stalking, pretending she was innocent and the victim. She is a pig. A whore. And a selfish manipulative cunt. Yes. I said it. #affairrecovery #betrayedwife #nothinglefttofightfor #twatwaffle #infidelitysucks #rulerofmyownheart #affairssuck #karmawillbitchslapyougood

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Change is needed. If no change is seen then i cant promise i will be here when you decide to wake up. I watched you commit to Deb the #twatwaffle. I need the same. #affairrecovery #betrayedwife #nothinglefttofightfor #twatwaffle #infidelitysucks #rulerofmyownheart #affairssuck #karmawillbitchslapyougood

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Learning to trust again is not going to be easy - I don’t just mean trusting men - when you’re betrayed by someone pretending to be your friend you put those barriers right up! I know who my friends are right now and I love them all but I’m definitely wary of ‘new’ people and their motivations which isn’t a very nice place to be. #movingon #trust #becarefulwhoyoutrust #howtoheal #affairrecovery

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Friends and family may have very strong opinions in either direction. While they may mean well, only you can decide what’s best for you. Just make sure you have YOUR personal best interest at heart. #infidelity #stayorgo #liars #affairrecovery #divorce #narcissism #cheatinghusband #changeyoursituation #decisionmaking

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I’ve always loved the Cinderella version that starred @4everbrandy and @whoopigoldberg among others. One of my favorite parts contains this quote in song form. Today, it means more to me. If someone had told me this time last year that I’d be in this place after discovering my husband’s affair, I’d probably laugh. (Well, in between sobbing uncontrollably.) I, like many, thought my marriage was surely over. Even though I had decided to work toward recovery, the pain, anger, and despair left me doubtful at best. But today, there are no tears. I’m even...*wait for it*... smiling more. I know things will never be as they were, but maybe, just maybe, happiness is possible. Some would have you believe “better” is, simply, not in the cards. But I’m one of those “dewy eyes dopes” who believes in the impossible. With God, much prayer, consistency and humility from my husband, there is hope. #infidelity #affair #betrayal #betrayaltrauma #betrayaltraumarecovery #marriage #GodlyMarriage #infidelitysurvivor #marriagerecovery #myhusbandcheated #heartbroken #brokenhearted #emotionalaffair #workplaceaffair #affairrecovery #EmotionalAbuse #liarsandcheaters #infidelityrecovery #liarsandcheaters #healing #womenhelpingwomen #infidelityhurts #infidelitysucks #cheater #cheatingsucks #conversationsinhealing #unfaithful #adultery #thereshope #gaslighting

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I did a brave thing last night. I told my story at an event call Story Department that was sponsored by this great local non-profit, the Austin Bat Cave. Once a month they invite folks to come share a true story from their life in front of an audience. - I first attended Story Department back in January 2018, fell in love and vowed to tell my own story in 2019. - Well, last night I just got it in under the wire. - The story I shared was about the worst day of my life. It was about my very first Discovery. That is, the day that I discovered that my ex-husband was a sex addict. - I don't think that I yet had enough information about what sex addiction was to call it that but I did know enough to know that something was terribly wrong and that he needed help. - And that's so important to all the messages that I have been receiving from the Universe this week. - That you don't yet know that your husband is a sex addict. Or at least, you haven't yet applied that name to the problem that you know is there but you don't know what to do about it. - So, I've jumped on an impromptu live video this afternoon to tell you this: - IF YOUR HUSBAND'S BEHAVIOR IS A PROBLEM FOR YOU, THEN IT'S A PROBLEM. - It doesn't matter whether you call it sex addiction or betrayal trauma or infidelity or you don't know what the heck to call it because it doesn't fit nearly into any of those buckets. - All you know is that you FEEL IN YOUR BODY THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG. Please do not ignore that feeling. Your are a wise woman with a wise body that is trying to get your attention. - What I also realized as part of telling that story was that I was used to saying that after that initial discovery I went back into denial for another 2.5 years before I was ready to deal with it. - But I can see now that it wasn't denial. It was a lack of information about sex addiction and betrayal trauma. And it was PTSD. There was no way that I was capable of doing anything else at that point in my life. - What I needed at that point was support from someone who had been through the same thing that I was going through and that understood sex addiction and that I had experienced a significant, life was never to be

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We get this A LOT. Over the years, this has been one of the constant questions asked. Talking about it while recording, we realized Sara gets this question far more than Sterling. ⁣ ⁣ Don't get us wrong, we expect it especially with putting our story out there but it's still hilarious that people ask. This is our comparison to being asked this question...⁣ ⁣ To listen to the full episode, head to the link in bio! ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #affair #affairrecovery #marriage #marriedlife #darkjokes #spoof #nottheworstmarriage #marriage #marriedlife #husbandandwife #cheating

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I'm speaking today, Wednesday, December 11th at 3:00 PST at the Braveful Virtual Summit. ⠀ ⠀ That means you can watch my talk from the comfort of your own home!⠀ ⠀ I'd love to have you join me. You can still sign up for free by clicking the link in bio.⠀ ⠀ But, that's not the only great news!⠀ ⠀ I was just talking with a partner about how much she's learning from the Braveful Summit but was sad that she's missed some of the speakers. She works full time and doesn't have ability to sit and watch them all.⠀ ⠀ So, she decided to take advantage of the All Access Pass. Which means that for only $97 she now has lifetime access to all 40+ experts.⠀ ⠀ Click the link in bio to learn more about the all access pass.⠀ ⠀ Take another step forward in your healing by joining me today at 3pm.⠀ . ⠀ . ⠀ . ⠀ . ⠀ . ⠀ . ⠀ #bravefulsummit #betrayaltrauma #braveful #bravefulness #allaccesspass #sexualbetrayal #allaccess #intimatedeception #fightthenewdrug #pornkillslove #freesummit #betrayaltraumarecovery #allaccess #virtualsummit #Drsherikeffer #40experts #takethenextstep #takeastepforward #nextstepinhealing #movelifeforward #braveones #ownyourhealing #takeastepforward #opportunityawaits #womensupportingwomen #b1braveone #womenlovewomen #gaslighting #affairrecovery #sexualaddiction #thebraveones

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"I say this because I know the plans that I have for you.” This message is from the Lord. “I have good plans for you. I don’t plan to hurt you. I plan to give you hope and a good future." Jeremiah 29:11 ERV . Make the decision today to do whatever you must do to align yourself to see the full manifestation of God's plan for your life. Stop sitting back moping because things don't look like you'd hoped. . Do something! If you expect something different and better you've got to make some changes. The old way won't necessarily work this time around. . Ask God for His direction. Pray for strategies from heaven to restore your marriage, your finances, your self confidence. . God has BIG plans for you!! There is greatness in your future! His plan for your marriage is that you enjoy your spouse and the two of you thrive together in love, purpose, and passion. His plan is for you to see your children grow up and become successful in their areas of influence. . But you cannot just sit back and wait and expect God to do it all when He has equipped you to do it yourself. . Ladies - today I'll be live at 12pm est in our Thriving in Love Facebook Group (facebook.com/groups/thrivinginloge or click link in bio) for Wife Life Wednesday. We're talking about refusing to settle for less. . Who's with me? Who's going after EVERYTHING God has for you?

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“You have to do the work necessary... it’s not about the affair partner...” Click the link in bio for help and tools to break free and find freedom from the affair partner. #affairrecovery #betrayedspouses #unfaithful #lifeafterinfedility #hope #healing #unfaithfulspouse

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What I learned during my healing journey was to truly love myself at all costs. Begging for my ex-husband's love was something I didn't realize I was doing during the latter part of our marriage. All while he was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend. Now he begs for her love as she controls their relationship- serves him right. My strong, intelligent and beautiful warriors, you are too special, too unique, too proud to beg for anyone's love, especially someone who cheats. Time will bring a real partner to you, an honest and loving partner to you. A real man! Someone who loves you for who you are. We are here to support you every step of the way. #womensupportingwomen #strongwomen #loveyourself #healingjourney #covertaffairs #affairrecovery #cheatinghusbands #yourexisyourexforareason #homewrecker #weknowyouarewatching #zeroresponsibility #gettingstronger #todayisagreatday #narcissist #itsnotgoingtolast #greatmom #movingon

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One year ago, my naive, gullible, trusting soul lived in blissful ignorance. Not my husband, he would never. And how cliché, seriously...perfume?! I guess my heart refused to listen to what my intuition knew. I sat near that ‘woman’ at the hockey games, lingered in the lobby chatting with all the parents afterwards. Our daughters were teammates and friends for a year, her daughter has slept in my home. Did they need a rule book stating “fraternizing with someone else’s spouse in the hockey rink parking lot during your daughters’ practice is off limits”? Apparently that bland, common hockey mom needed some ‘consoling’ for her own miserable marriage that night, and allegedly they were never alone together either before or after the perfume scare. They did, however, continue to communicate via their secret Snapchat until I stumbled upon it three months ago. If only I had pressed a little harder, asked more questions, trusted my gut, I could’ve saved myself a year of playing the fool. I know I can’t change the past; I can only learn from it. And learn I have. Petty side note...the perfume was cheap, little did I know it was perfectly paired with the harlot wearing it. . . #trustyourgut #trustyourintuition #intuitiondoesntlie #intuition #hestaken #homewrecker #stayinyourlane #illbeokay #mystoryisntover #womenempowerment #empoweringwomen #womensupportingwomen #healingfromtrauma #betrayalrecovery #liarsandcheaters #infidelityrecovery #betrayedwife #affairrecovery #unfaithful #infidelity #womencheattoo #cheatingsucks #codependency #aftertheaffair #cheatinghurts #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #cognitivedissonance #traumabonding #gaslighting #narcissisticmother

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Choosing to love and forgive isn't about excusing the other person's wrongdoing. It's about you releasing them and yourself so you can walk in freedom. . Holding a grudge actually puts you in a place of bondage. You cannot truly thrive off you are holding a grudge against someone. . If your spouse had hurt you, betrayed your trust, or caused disappointment... choose love's response, which is to forgive. Not fit them but for yourself. So that you can continue being the best version of yourself. . Choosing love and forgiveness is necessary to finding healing in a broken relationship. . Drop a ❤ if you're going to choose love today. . Get your copy of the ultimate guide to restoring and protecting your marriage from infidelity at www.roadmaptorestoration.com or click the link in or bio.

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"He cheated and I was completely alone, who could I trust anyways? The person I was closest to in this world has been lying to me for who knows how long? I didn't even know if my memories were real or fake! I felt like a fool for not seeing it sooner. What an idiot! Why did this happen to me? What did I do wrong? Maybe if I was prettier, smarter, sexier... he wouldn't have cheated. Oh God, I think I am gonna be sick! What is wrong with me? Am I going crazy?" Does this sound familiar? These kind of racing thoughts and questions go through our head over and over again. This stalls our healing and keeps us stuck. NO ONE wants to be stuck here! Please give yourself the tools to start healing now. Please do not stay stuck like I did for 3 YEARS, it is terrible and that experience is why we started After the Affair. We can't stand the idea that anyone else would attempt to heal from their partner's affair alone. It's too hard. SIGN UP NOW ---> http://ed.gr/bqzfx #cheaters #cheatersexposed #separated #divorcedmom #divorced #healing #affairrecovery

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Why is she so tired? Hmmm... yeah. Maybe that double life you lead? It's probably exhausting remembering all the lies you told! #affairrecovery #betrayedwife #nothinglefttofightfor #twatwaffle #infidelitysucks #rulerofmyownheart #affairssuck #karmawillbitchslapyougood

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yep that's right!! just because you are broken doesn't mean you aren't blessed! you are blessed! embrace the season of brokenness because brokenness comes right before multiplication 🙌🏾

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I fell down hard yesterday but I’m intent on picking myself back up. Received some horrible news and after months and months of not reaching out, I tried to call him. Even after talking last week about how I knew I had to be strong, I reached a breaking point yesterday and instinctually wanted to talk to the person who until this year was my greatest support system. He did not answer, but I left a long voicemail where I was crying the whole time, trying to explain why I was reaching out while also apologizing for doing so. It was a mess. I was a mess. Then I sent a follow-up email apologizing more, but I still hadn’t calmed down. Last night I was simultaneously beating myself up about taking a step back after so much progress AND internally raging at him. How dare he promise me he would always be there for me and then just not respond when I was in crisis mode?! How dare he do any or this?! It was bad. I’m a bit better today. I’m thankful he didn’t respond. I’m still ashamed that in a moment of extreme weakness I reached out, but I’m following the lead of my friends and trying to give myself some grace. I am doing so well overall, and setbacks are bound to happen on the journey. All I can do is pick myself up and keep going, using this mistake as an opportunity to remind myself that he doesn’t owe me anything and he is not someone who can be there for me anymore ... and there are many reasons why that is a blessing in disguise. Also you can bet your ass I’ll never make this mistake again. I’m sharing this setback in the spirit of transparency and hope others will realize that it happens and that just makes us human. also if any of you have experienced similar situations and want to share your wisdom, I would love to hear it. #infidelity #infidelityrecovery #theotherwoman #affairrecovery #grief #mistakes #setbacks #healing #imonlyhuman #breakup #nocontact #selfcompassion

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This week we wrapped up our final Reclaimed Small Group together in the closed Reclaimed Ministry Community on Facebook. 🙌🏻 We’ve had hundreds of women join from every corner of the United States 🇺🇸 to seek greater healing in their betrayal recovery. If you are interested in leading or joining a Reclaimed Group, contact us { link in bio } for more information. 📬 Thank you friends for allowing me to stream live while on my rest and recovery vacation! ☀️ #womensministry #churchresources #smallgroup #betrayaltrauma #fightthenewdrug #affairrecovery #healinghearts #eyesonjesus #loveandrespect #facebooklive #cometothetable #reclaimedministry #reclaimedbook

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