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Thou shalt do better. Keep your eye out for our 10 Divorce commandandments. 10 lessons from divorce veterans. #divorcedigest

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Power in your breath. Power in your mind. Power in your soul. Tell fear to move as you now have new territory to cover. Oxygenate your blood with deep breathing and dilute those fear hormones. Become free. Power.

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👇🏼 Truth 💥 Your relationship should be peaceful. Not full of chaos and stress. You should not be dealing with: 1. Doors slammed 2. Cars peeling out 3. Screaming 4. Throwing things 5. Being trapped 6. Gaslighted 7. Lied to 8. Triangulated 9. Strangulated 10. Put downs 11. Marital rape 12. Cheating 13. Financial abuse 14. Demeaning sex 15. Controlling behaviors 16. Projection 17. Omitting = lying 18. Accusations 19. Guilt trips 20. Silent treatment • You don’t have to tolerate this junk. My dms blow up with this stuff and people wondering if any of this is normal. No, it’s not normal. You can actually have a quiet peaceful life. It’s out there waiting for you to create. #boundaries. • • • #exhusband #youdeservebetter #narcissisticabuse #shadypeople #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #dysfunctionalfamily #dysfunction #redflags🚩 #relationships #maritalissues #leavehimalone #nocontact #domesticviolence #movingon #movingontobetterthings #singleandhappy #singlemoms #covertabuse #emotionalabuse #hiddenabuse #npdsurvivor #divorcerecovery #divorced #startingover #boundaries #marriageissues #marriageproblems #exwife #husbands

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Tell me below. I'm listening. 🙏 .⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #hopeafterdivorce #breakupsupport #divorcedparents #divorceddad #divorcedlife #singleagain #divorce #divorced #divorcedmom #lifeafterdivorce #divorcedwomen #divorcerecovery #divorcecare #divorcequotes #divorcehelp #divorcecare #healingafterdivorce #lifeafterloss #divorcesupportquotes #breakupsupport #gettingdivorced #divorcee #peacefuldivorce⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣

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Deliverance and Family Communication Counseling is available via FaceTime, Skype, and WhatsApp Video. Make An Appointment Today. We offer: Premarital Counseling, Separation & Divorce Recovery, Depression and Anxiety, Anger Management, Family & Marital Communication, Mental & Emotional Issues, Dating, Depression, Stress, Chronic Fear, Conflict Resolution, Inter-Generational Dysfunction and Financial Difficulties. Prophetess Paula Loblack has 27 years of hands-on experience as a Deliverance Counselor and Relationship Specialist. She triumphed over a crushing divorce that took her life for six minutes. This qualifies her to mentor you through her Deliverance Counseling and Mentorship Program. Prophetess Paula is determined not to waste her personal pain. God let her live so that she could inspire and empower you to live life to the fullest. Impact Deliverance Center, a ministry with a 98% success rate in the area of Deliverance and Counseling. Prophetess Paula Loblack’s deep insight and vast knowledge of human behavior empowers her to unveil the root cause of Depression, Fear and Rejection to bring freedom to suffering individuals. Her clientele includes professionals, businessmen, entrepreneurs, clergy, athletes and everyday people who want to rise up and win this warfare. Contact Information: Phone: 321-247-5685 Website: www.paulaloblack.org #deliverancecounseling #marriageproblems #communication #depressionandanxiety #fears #emtionalissues #separation #premaritalcounseling #divorcerecovery

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Which are you when it comes to holding grudges? 1) I hold them! 2) I let them go⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I have to be honest.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I used to be a master at holding grudges.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ When someone angered me, I wouldn't talk to them, I wouod block them, and hold it against them as long as I needed to.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Of course, now I know it really did hurt me more than it hurt them.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I am not at all one who wants to diminish any type of pain you have felt lately. I know how hard it is to move past bitterness and anger and resentment and move forward.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ But getting better means dealing with the bitterness and making the necessary adjustments so that YOU can grow.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Getting better is about being honest about where you are but doing the necessary work to move forward in healing so that YOU can be made whole.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Let's commit to continue working on healing.. day by day, step by step.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Let's commit to go from bitter and broken.. to healed and WHOLE.⁣⁣ ⁣ -Mechelle⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #hopeafterdivorce #breakupsupport #divorcedparents #divorceddad #divorcedlife #singleagain #divorce #divorced #divorcedmom #lifeafterdivorce #divorcedwomen #divorcerecovery #divorcecare #divorcequotes #divorcehelp #divorcecare #healingafterdivorce #lifeafterloss #divorcesupportquotes #breakupsupport #gettingdivorced #divorcee #peacefuldivorce⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣

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Drop a 🙏 below if this is your prayer, too.⁣ ⁣ I don't know about you, but being in quarantine has given me a lot of time to think.⁣ ⁣ It's also given me the opportunity to dig deep. To be honest with myself about decisions I've made in relationships, and the changes I need to make moving forward.⁣ ⁣ It's given me an opportunity to deal with some issues I thought had been resolved but had not.⁣ ⁣ During this time, I'm being honest with myself. And I'm being honest with God. ⁣ ⁣ I want Him to heal me everywhere I hurt, everywhere I'm wounded, and everywhere I still need to grow.⁣ ⁣ And I pray the same for you. Why don't you take this time to get quiet.. and honest with yourself? Seriously. Get off social media. Cut off Netflix. Get your hands dirty. Dig deep. ⁣ ⁣ Pray. Journal. Ask yourself those questions you've been avoiding.⁣ ⁣ Let God help you. ⁣ ⁣ And let God heal you.. everywhere you hurt.⁣ ⁣ Much love,⁣ Mechelle⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ .⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ #hopeafterdivorce #breakupsupport #divorcedparents #divorceddad #divorcedlife #singleagain #divorce #divorced #divorcedmom #lifeafterdivorce #divorcedwomen #divorcerecovery #divorcecare #divorcequotes #divorcehelp #divorcecare #healingafterdivorce #lifeafterloss #divorcesupportquotes #breakupsupport #gettingdivorced #divorcee #peacefuldivorce⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣

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Divorce is just a process just like any other process in life.. . It’s a series of logistical steps in order to separate. Think of moving into or out of a home. This requires a process. . Similarly, so does divorce. . The difficulty surrounding divorce is usually not with the ‘steps involved’. What gets in the way is your intense, heightened emotions and being unable to manage them as you go through the divorce process. . . But when you understand what your feelings are and what they mean, you have the ability to master your emotions rather than be controlled by them. . . Therein lies the key to successfully divorcing in a manner that is pleasing to Allah. I’ll teach you to confidently, calmly, and logically take those series of steps to separate and have a beautiful start to your next chapter. . Don’t you want to emerge a beautiful ‘butterfly’ through your transformational divorce? I’ll be sharing my own ‘butterfly’ experience in my upcoming workshop, Divorce in a Manner Pleasing to Allah . . Link in bio to join

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Just wondering.⁠⠀ What's your situation? ⁠⠀ How's it going?⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ .⁠⠀ .⁠⠀ .⁠⠀ .⁠⠀ .⁠⠀ #covid19challenges #survivingcovid19 #divorced #divorcerecovery #divorcecommunity #divorcedwomen #divorcesupport #divorcelife #divorcedlife

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Hippocrates considered nutrition one of the best tools for both preventative and reactive medicine. Are you eating well these days? I’m sure trying to. Oatmeal for breakfast is a great choice, eat it plain or dress it up with cinnamon and sugar, fruit, you name it. And I’m keeping my junk food intake to a minimum. Don’t get me wrong, I love junk food, I just don’t like what it does to me. For optimum health, eat well. You’ll be glad you did.

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A high school sophomore is flying medical supplies to healthcare workers in rural Virginia who need help amid the coronavirus epidemic. It is great to see and hear how we are coming together as a nation to help others during this pandemic. We are living in history, right now. For the full article, the link is in the bio. #lawyersofinstagram #divorcetips #familylaw #Edwardsvilleil #ofallonillinois #ofldowntowndistrict #jmlaw #618divorce #divorcedmoms #divorcelawyer #estateplanning #lifeplan #goalsetting #financialplanning #alwaysbeprepared #divorcerecovery #divorcesupport #divorcehelp #legaladvice #lawyerlife #attorney #prenup #postnup #blendedfamily #marriage #beforeyousayido

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“Broken Crayons Still Color” Making this page was aesthetically pleasing. You watch the crayons start out whole, but slowly begin melting and morphing into something else. Despite the exterior changing, the crayons still worked. The crayons still functioned. Symbolically, I love this. Going through a divorce, you may feel “broken” . Although, you are no longer the same, you learn that you aren’t “broken” after all. Sometimes we lose a part of ourselves for a little while. That’s okay. Change does not equate to broken. Some things can’t be fixed or molded back together again. They can’t be reshaped, which could be a blessing in disguise. We learn to adapt to our new norm. We begin a new journey of finding a way to bring color back into our lives again. Broken crayons still color 🖍 Art Materials- distress crayons, gesso, crayons, marker, mod podge,

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Moments before my mother passed, I saw a rainbow outside the hospital chapel window. I took it as a sign . She was in surgery, and I prayed harder than I ever prayed in my life . God, please give me a sign that she will pull through. I’ll do anything. Just save her . The rainbow gave me hope . Minutes later, I was told to say my goodbyes. Her body was shutting down, and there was nothing they could do . I was ANGRY at God, at the doctors, at the world, and especially at rainbows. The universe betrayed me . It took years for me to fix my relationship with God, and yes, even rainbows. It took me years to feel hope that I would once say be happy again and heal my broken heart . It’s hard looking past our current pain and suffering, but please let me assure you the storm WILL pass. I can’t guarantee when, but I can delicately urge you to look for bright spots. Focus on the good in the world, and treat yourself with patience and kindness . I wanted to shift my focus from reality to daydreaming of a happier time, so I learned Somewhere over the Rainbow for You. We could all use a little positivity and light right now. If I can forgive the wrong in the world, so can you❤️ . Love you all. This too shall pass 🌈

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I’ve cried more times in yoga than I’d like to admit ⁣ ⁣ I have often been asked, what helped you transition through your divorce and get you to the other side. Well, first off there is NO one thing that helps you navigate through such an incredibly challenging time AND sometimes I still don’t fully feel on the other side of it. I believe you are always a work in progress and constantly evolving and growing. But I am certainly out of the thick of it and couldn’t be happier! And if I could get here so can you! ⁣ ⁣ One extremely impactful thing that got me through is exercise and in particular, yoga. If you knew me before my divorce you would never have in a million years thought I would do yoga and if I am being honest neither did I! I was and still am a runner. In my mind I needed to pound the pavement, have my heart beating out my chest and sweating profusely to consider something a good workout. How would sitting in a room “ommming” with people be exercise. ⁣ ⁣ What I discovered was, not only was yoga an amazing workout it was so much more. It was therapy, it was mediation, it was time to reflect and look inward. I cried A LOT, I smiled, I felt vulnerable and I felt strong. Yoga provided me the outlet to help process through a lot of heavy s**t. It was healing. ⁣ ⁣ So for you that is struggling right now and having a hard time think outside the box. Try something new that you may have turned your nose up at previously. It may actually be one of the most impactful things to help you through. ⁣ ⁣ P.S Down Dog is a GREAT at home app for yoga and its FREE right now. 💪🏻 Not sponsored 😜 just love the app. Check it out. ⁣ ⁣ Whats one thing you have been resistant to try? ⁣ ⁣ #yogalovers #yogachangedmylife #exercisetherapy #trysomethingnew

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This is one of my favorite photos of my daughter and I. For many reasons. One being, I feel like the image beautifully embodies motherhood. It shows deep love and relentlessness sitting together. Another being, because at the time the state of our life was devastation. Yet, all you see in the frame is beauty. I see her baby curls and that adorable little body in my arms. I see how lucky I am to have a daughter to raise. I see God’s provision even in sorrow. A place where beauty and pain coexist.⠀ •⠀ This reminded me of our current circumstances. It reminded me that joy and pain can show up together. It reminded me that you can look back on the worst of times and find the good. It reminded me that God was faithful then and is faithful now.⠀ •⠀ I am not downplaying how hard this is for all of us, but I am saying that the pain you feel can be matched with joy. The two can and will take up the same space. Let them sit together.

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All this time in isolation has given me time to pore over all of my writings from last year. Hope you’re holding up ok 💕

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Getting back into a routine takes so much effort. It’s a daily struggle but I keep Telling myself that In a couple weeks, maybe a month, it will feel normal again. 🤷🏼‍♀️ . The only thing to do when someone rips the floor out from under you is to keep going forward. I’ve noticed that I’ll take a few steps forward, tumble backwards dust myself off and try again. 🤦🏼‍♀️ . I’ve gained some weight, lost my way, had my life crushed in front of my eyes, more than a few new gray hairs but I’m coming back! In a big way! This time it’s for me! Only me! . Cheers to us! The strong ones! The ones that can and will do anything to survive! Cheers to me for dragging my ass out of the abyss, where I lived for months! 🎊🎉 🍻 . Here’s a quick little workout that made my legs burn with fire but also made me feel amazing and happy when I was done! . Enjoy my fiends! . Stay safe! Take care! ❤️😘 . . Plank Crossovers on step KB rows Toe taps Forward & back lunges Crossovers Uneven pulse squats . . . #divorce #myjourney #lifeafterdivorce #fitness #motivation #workout #fitnessmotivation #healing #happiness #kettlebellworkout #training #homeworkout #exercise #endlesslove #divorcerecovery #fit #personaltrainer #health #quarantine #weightlossjourney #weightloss #healthylifestyle #strength #bodyweight #getstrong #fitnessjourney #beyourself #proud #love #happy

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This hits a little too close to home... • • • • • • • #memes #meme #memesdaily #funny #likeforlike #like4likes #comedy #tiktok #followforfollowback #followme #pleasefollowme #pleaseshare #divorce #divorcerecovery

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Moving day was a success! Swipe left to see how happy i was yesterday before moving vs. how exhausted I am now. As I shared on my Story yesterday, I decided to move back home after my divorce to stack some 💰, finish my masters in design, and in a few years move back to🌴🌊. Luckily my parents are weird and super artsy so I don’t mind being back at home with them, but I’m also excited about using time to me to better myself and continue to become that badass Wonder Woman 💪🏾. - - - - - #movingbackhome #divorcerecovery #divorced #dmv #inkedgirls #movingforward #wednesdaywisdom #wednesdayvibes #wednesdaymotivation #hujicam #hujifilter #hujiapp #hujicamera #melaninqueen #naturalbeauty #naturallyshesdope #dmvmodels #westcoastgirl #wonderwoman #lacreatives #blerdlife #blerdgirl #zumiez #skatergirlaesthetic #aesthetic #dmvblogger #dmvphotographer #dmvcreatives #contentcreator

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If this sounds familiar don’t make it a pattern. Say YES and sign up for my workshop: Divorce in a manner pleasing to Allah Saturday April 11th. . Link in Bio

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YES! I eat "real" food too.🌮 . TACOBOUT crazy questions... 🌮Do you only drink shakes? 🌮Do you feel deprived? 🌮Do you miss "real" food? . Let's get this straight. I'm all about balance...life is too short not to live balanced, and I can indulge on my LIFESTYLE meals because I fuel my body right on the DAILY with my AMAZING Isalean shakes and health products. . BUT....y'all I love me some pizza and tacos and those will never leave my life...especially TACOS.🌮 . You know, they say dating someone based on looks is so shallow, so I will consider important things like do they love GOD or do they own a TACO SHOP? BAHAHAHA!😂

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Happy Wednesday!! For those of you that don’t know me well I am going to share a few things. I am going to get raw and real if that’s okay....... I have always been self motivated and an extremely hard worker. Some people ask me why I started a business when I was already busy enough with my real estate career. Well here is where the honesty comes, and I have been too scared to share. At first it was to help my hair grow because I was losing it due to my thyroid and anemia. But WHY did I get so passionate about it? Why did I want to help others? Here goes........I was in serious debt😱 Debt that I didn’t want to involve Paul in because I was too embarrassed about it. Debt that I took on just to get out of my first marriage. I wanted OUT of that marriage quickly and without any fuss, so I took in ALL of the debt just to make it end. I know some of you think that’s crazy, but for me that’s what I needed at the time!! Even this many years later I still have lingering debt from that time of my life that I work daily and monthly on paying off. It’s sucks but it pushed me harder every day to keep going. I am so grateful that I AM passionate and self motivated!! I am more grateful that I found the Profession of Network Marketing. It’s has helped me Serve and help others every single day!! It has helped me to focus on building a financial wall around my family as we strive for our freedom and to live our best lives. I am grateful to have aligned with a company and product that I LOVE I am passionate about! I was embarrassed back then about a marriage lasting less than a year. But, one of my amazing sisters said to me at the time, and I will never forget.....’would you rather be embarrassed for being married a year, or being married for 25 unhappy years?’ And that was it, my decision was made.(if you need to know why, I am happy to share that in private) Thank you to my amazing team and my amazing customers for being a part of this journey with me. I can’t wait to change more lives every single day!! My goal when I started was to make $500 a month and within a month I tripled that!!! How could $500 or more change your life every month?

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Can my COVID-19 Federal Relief check by taken by my ex as child support? Will the IRS seize it? It depends. Do you have an order already on file with the IRS, allowing the seizure of your tax refund(s) to satisfy past due child support payments? If so, then yes. If you are not in arrearages and you are meeting your court ordered child support obligation then the answer is NO, you are not obligated to pay a dime more than required by court order / agreement. Also, since you are not behind on child support it will not be garnished. If you have no arrearages order BUT you are failing to pay child support because of a Covid-19 related job loss, then no, BUT you should  consider using a portion of it to meet your child support obligations.  However it will not be garnished. To learn more click on the link below, or follow the link in our bio where an article explaining your rights and obligations to this relief are explained in further detail. #coparenting #childsupport #childsupportproblems #custodybattle #childcustody #custody #divorce #divorced #divorcerecovery #singlemom #singleparent #singleparents #singleparenting #coparentingdoneright #stepparents #stepmom #stepdad #bonusmom #blendedfamily #stepmomlife #stepparenting #stepparents #coparentingwithanarcissist #divorcecourt #divorcedparents #divorcedwomen #divorceddad #seperated #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #divorcedmom . . . https://www.candmlawoffice.com/covid-19-federal-relief-check-is-my-ex-entitled-to-any-of-it

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Family Law Attorney, Jamie Mitchell, addresses the main co-parenting questions we are receiving surrounding COVID-19. Am I required to let my co-parent see the kids during COVID-19 and shelter and place? What do I do if my co-parent isn't taking quarantining seriously? Check out Jamie's advice and pro tips. #lawyersofinstagram #divorcetips #familylaw #Edwardsvilleil #ofallonillinois #ofldowntowndistrict #jmlaw #618divorce #divorcedmoms #divorcelawyer #estateplanning #lifeplan #goalsetting #financialplanning #alwaysbeprepared #divorcerecovery #divorcesupport #divorcehelp #legaladvice #lawyerlife #attorney #prenup #postnup #blendedfamily #marriage #beforeyousayido

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Nervous to come in during this time? We understand. That's why we're starting to do our consultations over the phone, through Zoom, Google Hangouts, and Skype! Call today for more information! . . . #FamiliesInTurmoil #Divorce #Divorced #DivorceAttorney #FamilyLaw #Relationships #DivorceSupport #DivorceLawyer #Coparenting #Adoption #ChildSupport #LifeAfterDivorce #DivorceRecovery #Family #BreakUp #LegalSolutions #Legal #ChildCustody #LegalHelp #Custody #LegalSeparation #Separation #LegalConsultation #WarrentonMissouri #Warrenton #Missouri #LawyersOfInstagram

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While most of us remain socially distanced, it’s the perfect time to get swiping! 📱 Accordingly to Google, “Hinge” {a wonderful dating app} saw a 30% increase. . But with IRL dates off the table during COVID19, taking things to the next level means Zoom or FaceTime dates. 😳 Inviting someone to video chat isn’t exactly as easy as suggesting to meet up for a happy hour cocktail . . BUT, this is the perfect time to practice your flirting! Also starting today, “Hinge” is making this a bit easier with the introduction of its new ‘Date From Home’ tool. Woo Hoo! Ladies, if I did not say this before . . Grab a glass of 🍷, download Hinge. . And get your swipe on! . . XO, The “Then What” Girls 🧚‍♀️ . . . . #single #divorced #onlinedating #lifeafterdivorce #swipeleft #divorcedmom #sexyboom #datingadvice #quarentineandchill #getyourgrooveback #divorcerecovery #yougotthis #thenwhat #momblogger #hinge

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👇🏼 Growing up I had two different examples of conflict resolution styles. When we witness these two styles as explained above we see one side being very focused on listening/explaining the actual issues & wanting resolution. The other side is never truly addressing the issues. Instead the issues are hedged around and these blanket statements are made: 1. I thought we were going to go do some fun things together. 2. I bought you a lot of nice jewelry, I tried. 3. I thought we were going to have these big family dinners. • 🚩 As you can see the statements are not relating to any issues like work /fam balance, in-law interference or control. Instead they are used as victim-mentality statements & to get off topic. They are used to confuse & not reach any resolution. It’s like two people speaking two different languages - it won’t work. • 👉🏼 Narcissists particularly don’t fight fair. They use any conflict to create more chaos + confusion. They don’t listen, don’t stick to the subject, aren’t respectful & may use threats of divorce, suicide, harm or just walk off. They trigger abandonment in their partners. • 🌿 A healthy person if needing a break says “I need a minute to regroup. I’ll be back.” or “I’m really too tired or hungry etc to be having this conversation- can we plan on tomorrow at 7?” A narc just walks off while you’re mid-sentence. • ✅ The basis of all healthy conflict is respect and even if it’s not resolved (sometimes thats 👌🏼) with everyone’s dignity intact. But with a narcissist that’s just not possible. • • • #maritalissues #gaslighting #highconflict #shadypeople #marriageissues #exwife #maritalproblems #dysfunctionalfamily #dysfunction #emotionalintelligence #relationships #toxicpeople #leavehimalone #nocontact #narcissisticabuse #movingon #movingontobetterthings #toxicrelationships #singlemoms #deflection #singlemothers #crazymaking #npdsurvivor #divorcerecovery #divorced #communication #boundaries #exhusband #marriageproblems #conflictresolution

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Your mental health matters the most right now. Did you know behavioral health copays are waived during COVID? Our practice is committed to providing you with optimal support during this time. If you struggle with anxiety, depression, anger management, or need life coaching, we recommend booking with Trish. While Jon's primary focus is grief trauma, HIV, chronic ill, depression, and anxiety through the lens' of kindness. Click the link in our bio to schedule your appointment today. *Accepting all major insurances

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Divorce brings forward A LOT of questions . . Heavy topics that may have you feeling lost or even overwhelmed. We get it! The “Then What” Girls are here to give advice, answer questions & offer support. We are in this together! One day at a time . . & even if things seem dark, there is a light at the end of the tunnel ✨ . . XO, The “Then What” Girls 🧚‍♀️ . . Questions or comments? Leave them below or DM us. We are here for you! . . #thenwhat #sex #sexytime #divorce #divorcemom #sexaftermarriage #divorcesupport #yougotthisgirl #yougotthis #divorcerecovery #divorceadvice #womenempowerment #relationships #relationshipadvice

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"Just be real with me."⁠ ⁠ The best friends are the ones who know you, listen to you, and love you. ⁠ ⁠ And you love them back. ⁠ ⁠ You have a mutual respect and appreciation.⁠ ⁠ Through that love, you can mutually offer feedback and speak truth. Sometimes you need a sugar-coated message, sometimes you want it straight-forward. ⁠ ⁠ Good friends know the difference and they know how to meet you where you need them.⁠ ⁠ Celebrate good friends.⁠ ⁠ #friends #sharing #respect⁠ ⁠

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A little reminder to create your own sunshine today ☀ #CustodyQueens

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This is what I do! This is my passion to support people going through difficult life transitions like divorce and separation. Are you facing this right now? If you are I can’t imagine things are easy right now. Covid is probably messing with things and making everything a bit more complicated and stressful. *********************************************Are you facing a difficult transition such as divorce, grief, quarter-life or midlife crisis, empty nest, job loss, illness, and compounded stress or anxiety due to big changes you are facing. The content here is meant to be inspirational and is not a substitute for the support you may need from friends, family, or a mental health care professional. In whatever you are facing I hope you find meaning, courage, and authenticity in the days to come. #janicemaetherapy #oakvilleontario #onlinetherapy #ontario #therapist #lifetransitions #coping #recovery #divorce #coparenting #authenticity #divorcerecovery #healing #courage #meaning #values #mentalhealth #wellbeing #wellness #grief #jobloss #criticalillness #pain #loss #sorrow #gta #halton #burlingtonontario #hamiltonontario

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So we stop repeating the same patterns over and over again in our life!!! . So we can overcome the self- limiting beliefs that have held us back from creating a life we love!!

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Just because your marriage has “failed,” does not mean YOU are a failure. I coached a client stuck in the story of “I am a failure” since her divorce. She is a failure because she SHOULD have - known, done something, been different... In turn, she has failed everyone. Her children, family, church family - yet no one has said anything or done anything to indicate they’re thinking it. It’s a fine line between the two yet such difference in how it makes us feel. Thinking “I am a failure” feels defeating, regretful, shameful. Thinking “My marriage didn’t work out,” (and even that is up for debate because, what constitutes failure and who decides on that?), feels less subjective and blame-y. It starts by deciding that the current story no longer feels good, taking a hard look and commiting to changing it. Redefining for ourselves what it all means - about our life and ourselves to seek out and live a different version. One that doesn’t mean anything disempowering about us. Then showing up for it - empowered and determined to leaving it behind where it belongs. #failure #divorcefailure #marriagefailure #yourenotafailure #reframeyourthoughts #empoweryourself #reframe #thinkdifferent #divorce #divorced #divorcerecovery #divorcedwomen

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CHILD CUSTODY AND VISITATION AND COVID 19 - at least for now. 1. Currently the parties are encouraged to continue to follow their current custodial orders. If this is of concern to you, it is suggested that you discuss any possible temporary modifications to your order with the other people, such as school related concerns, exchange locations, etc. The parties can agree to temporarily modify their custodial schedules and definitely put any modifications in writing. • • • 2. Out of State Travel: If the parties agree that the child should not travel (airplane, train, etc.), the parties should attempt to allow additional Facetime/Zoom, etc. communication during the otherwise cancelled visit. If the parties are unable to agree, you may need to bring an emergency motion to the Court to decide this issue. Please attempt to mediate this issue first, before taking this matter to Court. • • • 3. Social Distancing Concerns: If you have concerns about social distancing or high exposure to COVID 19, attempt to share your concerns with the other party and attempt to modify the current orders to accommodate your concerns. • • • 4. Patience: Both parties shall at least try (even if temporarily) to be understanding and patient with one another. We are all doing our best to find the best ways to keep our families safe during this time. • • • 5. Court Access: Courts are open for limited hearings, including emergency custody orders and domestic violence hearings, but I highly recommend this option as your last resort. . . #childcustody #lawfirm #divorcelife #divorcerecovery #lawsuit #assistance #attorneyatlaw #divorcecoach #divorcesupport #divorceadvice #conflictresolution #litigation #divorce #stimuluscheck #solicitor #lawyer #familylaw #custody #divorcelawyer #childsupport #lawyersofinstagram #attorneys #womeninlaw #attorneys #familycourt #attorney #mompreneur #bossbabes #mombosslife #girlbossmovement #lawfirm #problemsolver

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Man so much truth to this. Not just my own experience, but many people - family and friends - that I know. Most who will never admit to it, but they are textbook examples of every single one of these, too. The last slide hit me dead in my chest and unblocked the hole in the dam. I've been working on repairing it, so the water doesn't rush out anymore, just kinda bubbles up and trickles down my face. Eventually, I'll just tear the whole thing down and let it all flow out in a book or a movie. But for now, I'll just let the water slide down my cheeks, land on my chest and seep back into soil of my soul. #healingbutnottotallythereyet . . Repost @breakingupwithtoxic by @media.repost: How it works! #breakingupwithtoxic #narcissistabuse #divorcecoach #redflags🚩 #divorcinganarcissist #narcawareness #manipulations #codependency #leavinganarcissist #victimblaming #gaslight #domesticviolence #respect #emotionalabuse #lifeafternarc #divorcerecovery #gaslightingawareness #toxicfamily #scapegoatchild #narcissist #traumahealing #narcissisticabuserecovery #thirdeye #gaslight #psychopathfree #reparenting #narcissisticfamily #karma #narcissistfree #narcissisticmother #narcissisticfamily

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I know I know... I’m cute!! 😂🐶 . . . My human mom aka Irene the Blogger has a new post for this week that you really really don’t wanna miss. I already read it and it is the best one so far! Don’t miss it this Friday!! 🐶😊 . . . 🇻🇪🇻🇪 y yo también hablo y ladro en Español!!! . . . Si lo se, soy hermosa!! 😂🐶 . . . Mi mamita humana mejor conocida como Irene la Blogger tiene un nuevo articulo esta semana que de verdad no te quieres perder. Yo ya lo lei y es el mejor de todos hasta ahora!! No te lo pierdas este Viernes!! 🐶😊 . . . #blogpost #blogger #becomeabetteryou #divorcesmartnothard #divorcesupport #divorcerecovery #readersofinstagram #tampa #peaceofmind #loveyourselffirst #lovealwayswins #lovetherapy #separation #getinspired #helpingothers #mindfulness #awareness #inspire #cavapoo #doglover #cutepuppy #quarentenainspiradora #quarentine2020

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I know I know... I’m cute!! 😂🐶 . . My human mom aka Irene the Blogger has a new post for this week that you really really don’t wanna miss. I already read it and it is the best one so far! Don’t miss it this Friday!! 🐶😊 . . . 🇻🇪🇻🇪 y yo también hablo y ladro en Español!!! . . . Si lo se, soy hermosa!! 😂🐶 . . . Mi mamita humana mejor conocida como Irene la Blogger tiene un nuevo articulo esta semana que de verdad no te quieres perder. Yo ya lo lei y es el mejor de todos hasta ahora!! No te lo pierdas este Viernes!! 🐶😊 . . . #blogpost #blogger #becomeabetteryou #divorcesmartnothard #divorcesupport #divorcerecovery #readersofinstagram #tampa #peaceofmind #loveyourselffirst #lovealwayswins #lovetherapy #separation #getinspired #helpingothers #mindfulness #awareness #inspire #cavapoo #doglover #cutepuppy #quarentenainspiradora #quarentine

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INTRO POST➡️➡️➡️ I am an experienced family law attorney practicing in King and Snohomish Counties. I believe strongly in educating and empowering my clients to help them make the best decisions for their own unique legal situations. I work hard to reduce conflict for my clients and reach peaceful resolutions. A Washington native, I graduated Cum Laude with a B.A. from the University of Washington in 2005. I spent my time living abroad in both France and Argentina before returning to the University of Washington to obtain my degree in law. I am actively engaged in the collaborative law community. I enjoy getting outdoors with my husband, two wild daughters and Brittany Spaniel and working on my dressage skills on horseback. #seattlelawyer #collaborativedivorce #adr #collaborativelaw #collaborativelawyer #divorce #divorcerecovery #divorcelawyer #attorney #divorceattorney

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What do you miss most these days?

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BE STRONG 💪🏻 Satan will attack but god will strengthen those who fight back! ••• there was this one day when I was getting divorced that I remember so clear to this day. I was sitting on the floor in my closet with the door shut. I was sobbing uncontrollably. The hurt, anger, fear, sadness, loss and the broken heart 💔 were so heavy on me I did not think I could bear the weight anymore!! ••• my daughter comes in and sits down on the floor next to me. She starts to rub my back and she tells me it’s ok to be sad but it’s time to get up... “it’s time mom” ••• I think of that day often and I remind myself it’s ok to feel all kinds of negative thoughts but I better damn well know when “it’s time” to stand up and be done with Satan 🔥❌

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This photo was taken just before our Saturday eve online drink 🥂⁣ Today I'll discover you a secret behind online drink which is similar to the facetime with your date. 😉⚠️⁣ ⁣ Ready?! ⁣ ⁣ All benefits:⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ✅ Upper body: dress, earrings, hair, makeup... = 🔝⁣ ✅ Lower body: pyjama, Mickey mouse socks, shit emoji slippers 💩 (missing one eye)⁣ ✅ Drink = grape juice 🍇 (no risk to get drunk and say or do what you shouldn't)⁣ ✅ Room: mess, but he can see only you ⁣ ✅ Romantic atmosphere: you lit only one candle cause it's mess around ⁣ ⁣ I'm sure you have other ideas! comment below 😜❤🙏⁣ ⁣ ______________________________⁣ ⁣ Follow ⏩⏩ @lana_broz⁣⁣ Follow ⏩⏩ @lana_broz⁣⁣ Follow ⏩⏩ @lana_broz⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣ #datingadvice #datingmemes #datinghelp #datingcoach #datingcoaching #datingcoachforwomen #loveproposal #proposalideas #proposeidea  #datingtips #relationshipadvice #divorcedmom  #divorced  #divorcedwomen  #singlegirl #singlegirls  #singlelifeproblems  #lonelygirl  #lonelylife  #sdv  #sdvtodos  #loveisblind  #commentbelow  #frenchvibes  #luxembourgville  #ukgirls  #divorcerecovery  #coronavirus #lawofattraction #relationshipcoach

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