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#Repost @listeningactively • • • • • • When people take friendship or relationships next level, and they “open” up to you with “positivity” and “vulnerability”; is it angled with shining themselves in a good light? Is it seasoned with making you feel honored that they chose you? This is not necessarily vulnerability. In fact it often is laced with many other ways of gaining adoration and pity. True vulnerability is raw, it’s terrifying and it’s depleted. True vulnerability is putting it out there and being ok with hearing a negative about ourselves. If a response is not met with authentic openness from a tactful truth that may be difficult to hear, you’re not dealing with authentic. Vulnerability is the number one reason relationships last or fall apart. 🧰 Tools for life. #healing #emotionalhealth #qualityhealing #youreworthit #narcissisticabuseawareness #denial #lies #divorce #gaslighting #psychologyofanarc #narcopath #stopprojecting #dysfunctionalcommunicationstyle #logicalfallacies #abuse #financialabuse #boundaries #ifmywoundswerevisible #narcaship #manipulationship #disconnect

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When people take friendship or relationships next level, and they “open” up to you with “positivity” and “vulnerability”; is it angled with shining themselves in a good light? Is it seasoned with making you feel honored that they chose you? This is not necessarily vulnerability. In fact it often is laced with many other ways of gaining adoration and pity. True vulnerability is raw, it’s terrifying and it’s depleted. True vulnerability is putting it out there and being ok with hearing a negative about ourselves. If a response is not met with authentic openness from a tactful truth that may be difficult to hear, you’re not dealing with authentic. Vulnerability is the number one reason relationships last or fall apart. 🧰 Tools for life. #healing #emotionalhealth #qualityhealing #youreworthit #narcissisticabuseawareness #denial #lies #divorce #gaslighting #psychologyofanarc #narcopath #stopprojecting #dysfunctionalcommunicationstyle #logicalfallacies #abuse #financialabuse #boundaries #ifmywoundswerevisible #narcaship #manipulationship #disconnect

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We need to be responsible that not every shortcoming or undesirable trait becomes the logical fallacy of the bandwagon condemnation. Education and honesty is the right thing to do for authenticity and healing and true understanding. 🌷 🧰 Tools for life. #healing #emotionalhealth #qualityhealing #youreworthit #narcissisticabuseawareness #denial #lies #divorce #gaslighting #psychologyofanarc #narcopath #stopprojecting #dysfunctionalcommunicationstyle #logicalfallacies #abuse #financialabuse #boundaries #ifmywoundswerevisible #narcaship #manipulationship #disconnect

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The movies have done such a great job of subconsciously imprinting in peoples minds that there is something romantic and even beautiful about winning the heart of another that isn’t interested. The problem with that is that the winning is identified with attempts of intention that are deep and meaningful. That is not necessarily how it’s received subconsciously. The emphasis should be on attachment style of that person and how it’s received, NOT the romance. Attention and adoration is a superficial attraction won over, that fills a superficial need, or esteems an emptiness so common in most people. Winning people over does not work, it ignores the true attachment style of that person. 🧰 Tools for life. #healing #emotionalhealth #qualityhealing #youreworthit #narcissisticabuseawareness #denial #lies #divorce #gaslighting #psychologyofanarc #narcopath #stopprojecting #dysfunctionalcommunicationstyle #logicalfallacies #abuse #financialabuse #boundaries #ifmywoundswerevisible #narcaship #manipulationship #disconnect

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Narcissists see nothing wrong with their conduct because they base all your reactions to their manipulations, abuse, and conduct as the focus. Your reactions are the root cause in their mind. When you explain this to confidantes, it makes it sound like you’re leaving out part of the story. This is a very isolating factor. Always keep a truth teller around or someone who can give a testimonial to their manipulations if at all possible. 🧰 Tools for life. #healing #emotionalhealth #qualityhealing #youreworthit #narcissisticabuseawareness #denial #lies #divorce #gaslighting #psychologyofanarc #narcopath #stopprojecting #dysfunctionalcommunicationstyle #logicalfallacies #abuse #financialabuse #boundaries #ifmywoundswerevisible #narcaship #manipulationship #disconnect

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