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There is a deep sense of shame that human beings experience when we are misunderstood and ignored. A large part of our brains are wired for connection and we need, everyone to different degrees, to be a part of a pack -a tribe. When we experience something and no one notices, cares, or understands, our survival brain neurocepts danger and we experience it as feelings of shame. And this is a powerful emotion because it is our body trying to move us to fitting in with a tribe so that we can survive! • • On the other hand, if we are seen and “witnessed,” our body neurocepts safety. We can go from the sympathetic nervous system (fight/flight/fawn) into ventral vagal (social engagement). But the transition is when we discharge the trapped energy. Crying is one way we discharge the energy in our nervous system. • I have had this experience before when I read a book or a meme that captures what I experienced. I have also had this experience when I speak to family, friends, and my amazing counselor, Lori. That’s the beauty of being witnessed. • • While we never lose our need of connection -our brains are simply wired like that, we can start becoming our own witnesses as we heal from childhood wounds and other adult relational wounds. We can do the reparenting work of observing the part of ourselves that is hurting and offer it comfort and validation. We can even internalize a kind person’s voice and imagine their face witnessing our pain. While the inner critic (an internalized voice of what we thought our caregivers thought of us) can be very damaging if it is too loud, the inner parent -our highest self - is very healing. The more surrounded you are by people who can witness you and help your body neurocept safety, the more you will be able to foster that kind and compassionate inner parent. 💗💗 • • #innerchild #innerchildhealing #innercritic #witnessing #validation #kindnessrocksproject #selfreparenting #selflove #radicalselflove #radicalselfacceptance #unconditonallove #unconditional_love #unconditionallove💕 #neglected #neglect #ignored #beingignored #traumahealing #traumahealing #anxietyrelief #polyvagaltheory #polyvagal #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory

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My troubles, my pain, my hardships, my day, my grief, it is not a competition, mine is not worse, or better, there's room for all of us in this together. Like I always say once you become a member of Attach Families you are part of the Family forever and you will never be alone again! #attachfamilies #adoption #fostercare #biofam #inUterotrauma #trauma #neglect #abuse #parenting #healing #helpourchildren #helpOurFamilies #braindevelopment #supportgroupsHELP #propertreatmentNOW #RaiseAwareness #radmom #developmentaltraumadisorder #DTD #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder #RAD #advocate #educate #findusonfacebook #SEED20 #SVP

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The city of Varna spends a fortune on its gardens with several dozen workers raking leaves and planting flowers while street cats are ignored and dying because of negligence. It is unconscionable, unkind and unChristmas like. Money for Christmas decorations while innocent cats suffer. Christ would be offended by such cruelty. #unconscionable #crueltytoanimals #streetcats #varnastrays #bulgarianstreetcats #inaction #neglect

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A girl who I use to know had her boyfriend always text her and talk about other girls rather than make her feel special. He then said he loved her. When she got upset or even when she tried to hide she was upset he knew something was going on with her and guess who was the one in trouble? Her. Obv she got jealous becuase from what I was hearing that this guy didn’t really give her the feeling of being special or loved it or that she was suppose to be the girlfriend it was always about “ash” He wouldn’t talk about things and when she was angry and telling him why she got into trouble and it was her in the end that was apologizing. So basically her thought was to just keep silent about it but clearly her anger built up and some came through and then he accused her of being passive aggressive and to me it didn’t sound like she was. what was she suppose to do when a boyfriend keeps turning things around being hurt fault and he wouldn’t talk about things or fix his ways. She was scared of even mentioning anything becuase of result of breakup. But seriously here is the only screenshot she saved. It really hurt and she always suspected something becuase he always said he was “busy” and he literally neglected her, he wouldn’t text or call for days and wouldn’t care of her needs/wants and every time it was sexual it was always about him and he rarely pleased her. she was telling me all this crying. She loved him so much but didn’t want to lose him. Obv that didn’t work out 😂😂 he blamed her in the end and left her. She wanted me to speak out when she was okay for me to do so #abuse #neglect #relationships #boyfriend #breakupquotes #breakupstorys💔 #boyfriendabuser

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"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find easier to live in the world they've been given, than to explore the power they have to change it. ⁠ Impossible it is not a fact. It’s an opinion. ⁠ Impossible is not a declaration. ⁠ It’s a dare. ⁠ Impossible is potential. ⁠ Impossible is temporary. ⁠ Impossible is nothing.'⁠ ⁠ ⁠ That's what happens here. ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #DigALittleDeeper⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #psychotherapy #wecandohardthings #mentalhealthmatters #selfacceptance #selflove #startwhereyouare #traumanerd #showupforyourself #neuroscience #brainscience #emotionalbrain #consciousness #CSA #childhgoodabuse #wellnessjourney #traumahealing #neglect #CEN #therapistsofinstagram #acestoohigh #ADHDawareness #ihaveadream #Caledon #Bolton #Vaughan #Nobleton #Orangeville #33KingSt #psychotherapy

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This is not the only #wickedness #parents do. Mishaps like abandonment and #neglect ( ie the phenomenon of #baby daddies and baby mamas) -get Dying to be Angry by HollandMeissner. My 📖 https://www.amazon.com/Dying-be-Angry-Holland-Meissner-ebook/dp/B014Q2W4BA

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"We received a call from a very desperate young man named Jonathan. 'My wife is not properly caring for our 4-month-old son.' He very was concerned about the welfare of his baby and convinced his wife to allow us to help. My husband and I are 47-years-old, we are sometimes mistaken as the grandparents. We know we probably won’t have an empty nest and that’s just fine with us.”⁠ ⁠ #LoveWhatMatters #Love #Foster #FosterCare #Neglect #Adoption #Siblings #Beautiful #SiblingAdoption #Parenting #Parents #HowToParents #FosterForever #Joy #Hope Compassion #Healing #Support #FosterSupport #AdoptionJourney #FosterJourney

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This is a perfectly imperfect illustration of the process of healing from trauma. It's messy, it's confusing, it's painful, and it's liberating. 🔸️ I'm ready to walk this journey with you when you are. Book an an appt. Link in bio. Repost @traumaandco • • • • • • Repost @metoomanyvoices • • • • • • . . . . . . . #Trauma #ComplexTrauma #PTSD #PTSDAwareness #ComplexPTSD #CPTSD #TraumaInformed #PostTraumatic #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalIllness #MentalHealthMatters #Depression #DepressionAndAnxiety #Anxiety #Compassion #SelfCompassion #Abuse #DomesticAbuse #DomesticViolence #SexualAbuse #SexualViolence #EmotionalAbuse #EmotionalViolence #Neglect #EmotionalNeglect #ChildAbuse #ChildSexualAbuse #NonLinear #healingfromtrauma

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